The Renovation of Jules
pregnancy

Thursday, March 9

Here I Am

I know, I have been absent for ages!! Moved in a really quick space of time and still don't have computer up and running at home. Work has been diabolical and haven't been weight watchering or anything other than cleaning and moving bloody houses.

Have had really big upheavals as far as home life and Blair and I are thinking of turning Mum and Dad down on their offer. They are just so intrusive in our lives as it is, they probably don't even realise it though. Moving next door to them has highlighted just how full on they are in the sense that they try and control us. They dictate to us what we are doing, when we are doing it etc. It is driving us nuts and to be so heavily under the thumb from them financially, and have them as childcarers - we would just have no say in our own lives. We are thinking it will be better to live our lives the way we want to and just keep them in the background, where we still love and cherish them. Otherwise I can see big things happening!!!

It will mean that we are still renting and have to look at the childcare situation, as we won't be moving out near Mum and Dad and will steer away from their involvement. Big decisions, we are doing up a list of pros and cons at the moment and the pros of doing it on our own are outweighing the cons.

How is everyone else going out there? Haven't checked up on anyone but will endeavour to do so. I haven't put on any weight, I know that much. Will be back into it soon.

Posted by Jules :: 1:31 pm :: 10 Comments:

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